So my birthday just passed and im not getting any younger. Being single for more than 3 years does have you think, Am i ever going to get in a relationship? or Am i even ready for that step in life? So i have came up with things to consider before you even give it some thought to make a commitment to someone
1. Is what im doing going to bring us closer as a couple you must ask yourself if your doing the right things to take the friendship further, it can be as little as communicating with each other to as big as getting to know his family and close friends that can bring you closer
2. Have i given my best to the person i am dating make sure you know that your showing all your colors so your partner doesnt go crazy thinking he got into a relationship with an angel and gets a devil just be yourself.
3.Is there more i can do Yes you both like each other but is there something else you want from him before you guys take the next step or vice versa. you have to be willing to do more for him if you want to be in a relationship. ask him if hes happy with the way things are or expects more, it is a good thing to consider.
4.Am i doing what i believe is healthy in a relationship best way to put this is do unto others what you would want done unto you. Always have the other person feelings in mind and the healthy thing to do is always let your partner know how your feeling.
5.Do i express how i really feel this is the most important because without communication the relationship will never last. It is best to address an issue right when you have it, instead of holding it in because it can turn into an even bigger issue and cause problems. Also its nice to give compliments if that how you really feel about him. guys like to hear it too lol
Now i know these tips seem moree like me me me and what i need to do but it can go for the guy as well, he should consider all these things before commiting as well its just a little food for thought ohh and P.S. dont ever change yourself to fit who the person wants you to be!
