Now we all know when you first meet a guy everything seems all good in the beginning and the after a few weeks out of no where everything turns sour, your not hearing from him and anymore , you go on less and less dates to the point you guys stop talking. So now you have to start over again. Well i have come up with the Top 5 mistakes Women make when first dating a man:
1. Not fully geting to know each other- meaning finding out his background, what he like or dislikes. Your only going to know what you tell each other and it doesnt hurt to ask questions .
2. Not believing what he says- now we always mess up here. Yes i can admit we women tend to not mean what we say but men are the total opposite. If your man is saying he doesnt like drama movies dont drag him there just because you want to see it, im sure there are other you can both see together and save those movies for your girlfriends.
3. Thinking he will change over time- One thing we must understand as adults is once we are grown we are set in our ways and it is very hard to change from that. So expecting an orange to grown from an apple seed is impossible just let it be. If their things you dont like about him either deal with it or let him go bottom -line
4. Changing your life for him- I should have put this as number 1 mistake because many women fall victim of this all the time. They think well if i am always available for him how can he not want me. Well honey what you need to realize is if you had a life before him you can have one after him. Its not hard just learn how to balance. Your onlu going to push hin away the more time your with him.
5. Making excuses for his actions/behavior- If he curses at you and just blames it on a bad day take note of it. If he cancels a date more then once just because maybe he just not that into you. You just need to realize that is who he is and move on.
